• Chemical Wonka@discuss.tchncs.de
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    13 days ago

    they downvoted my other post with an “?” for no reason , this place is become more and more toxic day after day. I plan to delete my account soon and hope this social media dies very soon

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      13 days ago

      In my experience it’s been less hive-mindy than reddit was, but to be completely honest I think you kinda get out what you put in

      If you approach things combatively, you’ll get combativeness. If you approach things with curiosity, I find you get openness and a willingness to engage with folks sincerly.

      Not sure why you’d wish the death of a platform people are enjoying and that serves as a small escape from the broader corporate web, just because you personally didn’t like it.

      I rather like it here, I’d be really sad to see this space cease to exist. It sounds like you’d be better served by going somewhere you like more instead of staying here and just spouting bitterness :(

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        13 days ago

        I received downvotes for a simple question in another instance and I genuinely had good intentions, I was extremely friendly but all in vain. I’m not spreading bitterness, I’ve seen vague posts here saying the same thing I’m saying. This is how your community is dying every day. Good luck to you

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          13 days ago

          I think it’s pretty fair to describe ‘wishing for the death of things other people are enjoying’ as spreading bitterness 😅

          I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a bad experience in your time here. I hope you find somewhere you feel more at home, best of luck to you too