Don’t contribute to malice what can be explained by ignorance.

Like, do you compliment each other on the superficial stuff?

We go to the gym expecting to get compliments from women but the only ones we end up getting are from other gymbros.

Ironically, my GF just asked some young fellow about his perfume and when she came home she told me about how worried she was about being labeled a creep because of it.

Women get this kind of attention and compliments constantly but I bet most of them don’t realize just how rare it is for even the most handsome men. I remember Chris Williamson, podcasted, previously a male model and professional stud saying that he can pretty much count with one hand the times he has been approached by woman.

I’ve had a woman send me a blow kiss from a passing vehicle once. I bet she didn’t think anything of it when as I’ll remember it forever.

I once was young and stupid and maxed out the speedometer of my car on a empty highway at the middle of the night. Now I can say I’ve done it and don’t need to do that again. Normally I hardly even drive above the speedlimit.

I’ve always been a bit puzzled as to why so many people, especially the elderly, seem to like me so much. I do have good manners but I’ve never exactly been much of a people pleaser. From time to time I even worry that what if I just unconscioussly manage to manipulate people to like me or I’m simply just so good at hiding who I truly am.

Then again when I get into an argument with someone online and they call me an asshole, all I can think of is “well yes, I am, but in this particular case you’re just misunderstanding me”