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Cake day: October 4th, 2023

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  • I think you’re correct that (some / many) people see the tiniest chink in your armour and go for the juggler (jugular vein - clown 🤡 joke) to compound your misery to make themselves feel/look “strong”.

    And, yes, in abusive relationships I believe a husband is more likely to hurt and damage his wife with his fists whereas a wife would be more likely to hurt and damage her husband with words - generally speaking. It’s tragic either way…






  • I’ve thought about this a lot myself. I’m 12-15 friends/acquaintances down due to them deciding to step out of life in their twenties or thirties. On paper none of them seemed to be in too bad a way and yet…

    There’s obviously the problem that having and discussing emotions is for girls and gays only (/s), but there must be more to it than that.

    I think there’s an expectation (where I live) that men should be strong and stoic at all times - but, honestly, many of us are fragile little flowers, some of the time, but it’s seen (erroneously) as weakness.

    In my experience most men are happy to talk about: “big screen tv’s, blunts, 40’s and bitches” to NSFW quote

    Steve Berman

    but they can’t open up about emotions and feelings.