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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • If you can, ignore it or dismiss it as “old man yells at clouds”.

    Either way, unfortunately, you have to find a way, somehow, to deal the issue so that it stops causing you problems. It’s hard and it sucks.

    IMHO as a parent, my kids owe me nothing and I owe them everything. I created them after all.

    This is kind of rubbish advice, sorry.

    You could ask him what he expects you to do about it. Force him to follow through on his line of reasoning to the conclusion. Does he want it paid back? Does he want to estrange his children?

    That can work because, rather than contacting contradicting him you’re facilitating him reasoning through his position. Hopefully for the best.