Tell that to the grumpy old folks that sit at my library and grouse while waiting for their turn with the newspaper. I’ve seen queues 3 deep. No, they won’t share. Yes, they will spawn camp the newspaper rack.

Would she use one of those little password-keeper books? It’s not as secure as a password manager, but it might help get her self-sufficient.

You could start not knowing how to do things, give slower answers, just give bad customer service. Or ask her if whatever she’s trying to do can wait until she gets home to get computer.

I know the feeling of wanting to help, it’s part of why I became a librarian. I also know the pain of old folks coming in and asking the same questions. I had one lady, really sweet, that would come in and ask for the phone numbers to maybe 3 businesses a day. Like, we’d show her how to look it up, we’d walk her through it on a public terminal, she’d still ask us again the next day. It gets frustrating and you pick your battles.

At least I could go home after a shift and stop being the tech-knower. It doesn’t sound like you get to and that sucks.

America elected Andrew Jackson and we learned our lesson. /s

Oooh. I’ve not upgraded yet, but that looks exciting.

Shout-out to Beyond Compare! It makes my life as a many-hatted systems librarian much easier.

Kind of, yeah. In this case, there are pre-written character sheets. You’re assigned a character by the GM based on a casting questionnaire.

Some games have dice, some don’t. Some involve hitting each other with foam swords or Nerf weapons, some don’t. It depends on what mechanics the game author wanted.

The game I’m going to play in is called a “theatrical-style larp”, meaning it’s more about portraying characters in a situation than about winning.

Awesome, thanks. Thinking more about my character I think the costuming hint/direction is so that I contrast with the other, more goth, characters in the larp. I’m getting a handle on what direction to go in and a trip to the thrift store is planned for the weekend :)

Not a joke, mostly concerned about allergies, and trying to figure out what to look for when I do make it to the thrift store.

edit: and when I’ve asked for costuming advice in other forums, I’ve gotten “go buy this $200 outfit from __” and I don’t have any interest in that.

Oh! I am also a competent/brave seamster and have access to a sewing machine, 3d-printer, and other tools.

Or, if you have an inkling that you won’t split everything evenly, at least talk to the kids about it. My mom has 2 kids. She’s told me she’s giving a greater proportion to my brother and I’m ok with that.

My brother is a drug addicted felon and has always needed/gotten more support than I have needed/gotten.

I’m distant from my mom by choice (we didn’t have a healthy relationship) and I’m a functioning adult with a lovely partner, a stable job, and a competent therapist.

Mom’s told me she’s putting things into a trust for benefit of my brother, but I don’t know that she’s done that and it’s not my problem.

Anyways, I guess the takeaway is it’s ok for your kids to think dividing the inheritance unevenly means you love them unevenly if they’re not wrong.