• DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca
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      6 days ago

      The mine + yours thing is intimate. You are experiencing the same thing at the same time, while being somewhat vulnerable to the other participant.

      Looking into someone’s eyes
      Holding someone’s hand
      Kissing someone’s lips
      Frotting

      Smelling someone’s nose doesn’t quite feel like it would fit the list.

    • cmbabul@lemmy.world
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      7 days ago

      So at least for me it’s as simple as, it feels really good and creates an intimacy between the parties involved even if it’s fleeting

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      7 days ago

      Do you mean making out? A quick kiss as a sign of affection makes sense to me. Locking lips and moving your tongues around? Weird. Maybe I’m doing it wrong, but if you are doing something that intimate, there are a lot more fun things to be doing.

      • Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works
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        7 days ago

        It’s a precursor to the more fun things, ratcheting up the excitement levels for most.

        Do people really just dive straight for the clitoris/dick without making out first? Not judging, just literally never considered that as a possibility. Also noted there are other forms of foreplay, but outside of some S&M branched stuff I always figured there was making out somewhere in the mix most of the time.