• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    2 days ago

    Can you elaborate about unwritten rules? Most of the bans I’ve seen has been for pretty clear rules violations, there’s some stuff which might fly on reddit (like xenophobia, sexism, racism, transphobia), that will catch a ban here. Having rules against bigotry actually getting enforced is probably a confusing occurrence for some redditors. Even people behaving hostile will generally only catch a temp ban to cool down, permanent bans are more for people who are being bigoted.

    I have had plenty of issues with at least one of the admins, despite that I have yet to be censored for saying as much. The red-baiting disguised as legitimate concerns rubs me the wrong way though.

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      1 day ago

      Check the modlogs. .ml uses rule 1 as a catch all for whatever is said that hurts their feelings.

      Almost daily there are removals and bans that don’t break rules.

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        weird, looks like you got banned for the same thing on lemmy.world, (hostility, repeatedly calling people “kids” in a derogatory way, and trivializing the ongoing genocide), but only had a post removed for similar behavior on .ml.

        CW: .world modlog

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        moderated .ml comment

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        got any better examples?

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      2 days ago

      The tricky bit is how you guys have redefined what xenophobia/sexism/racism/transphobia means. I don’t mind catching a ban, but at least get the reason right.

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        2 days ago

        You haven’t even had any mod action taken against you on lemmy.ml from what I can tell.

        Plenty of other instances that you do use have banned you for racism and trolling though.

        This one from hexbear was really funny:

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            I mean they never even got banned from .ml, but here’s a sample of other places they’ve been kicked out of, so this isn’t really making the case for authoritarian mods on .ml tbh

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          I remember that. Yeah, some hexbear users were saying that all white people should be killed. Apparently saying “no one should be killed for the color of their skin” is racism. Or at least according to their definition of racism.

          I am so glad I blocked their instance.

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      2 days ago

      So you admit to paying 0 attention?

      YePowerTrippingBastards on my home instance is a good starting place, have fun

      Or, you know, play the classic .ml card of pretending you don’t know what we’re all talking about

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        Or, you know, play the classic .ml card of pretending you don’t know what we’re all talking about

        Literally the only complaint of substance I’ve seen in this entire thread is people who want to be allowed to use slurs

        Literally every single comment I’ve seen of yours boils down to “Oh come on, EVERYBODY says so!”

        It’s almost as if you know you’re in friendly territory so you don’t actually have to have any meaning behind your words. You’re free to use them as your playthings /sartre

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          It’s almost as if you know you’re in friendly territory so you don’t actually have to have any meaning behind your words

          More like I consider anyone who pretends not to know what we’re talking about as a willful idiot not worth taking seriously

          I don’t have time to deal with those who deny reality, be it MAGA shitstains or blind tankies

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        2 days ago

        More often than not someone when complains about getting banned and I bother to follow up in the modlog it turns out that they got like a 3-7 day ban for acting like an complete asshole. Then they proceed to vague post about it months later despite the ban being long over.

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          Most of the time, yeah. But there have been enough other cases over the past couple years that I wouldn’t put too many eggs in that basket (or any for that matter).